If you’ve ever experienced a condom slipping off and getting stuck inside, you’re no stranger to the embarrassment or even the momentary panic that follows.

Maybe the condom was too big, too small, or just lost grip during the action. Maybe things got too intense, and now it’s playing hide-and-seek up there. Whatever the case, there’s a way out of this, literally.

So before you go into full panic mode, let’s go through exactly what to do if a condom gets stuck in your vagina, how to get it out safely, and when it’s time to call a doctor. B

Step 1: Don’t panic, your vagina is not a black hole

Let’s clear up one big misconception; the condom cannot get lost inside you forever. Your vagina is not a bottomless pit; it’s more like a closed-ended tube. The farthest it can go is your cervix, which is like a locked door at the end of the tunnel. So, relax, it’s stuck, but it’s not disappearing into your stomach.

Now, let’s get it out.

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Step 2: Wash your hands & get comfortable

Before you go on a retrieval mission, make sure your hands are clean to avoid introducing bacteria. Then, get into a comfortable position, because you’re about to do a little fishing expedition.

Best positions to try:

These positions help your vaginal muscles relax, making it easier to reach in and grab the condom.

Step 3: Use your fingers

Now, gently push like you're trying to poop. This helps move the condom closer to the vaginal opening.

Once you feel it slipping lower, use two clean fingers (your index and middle finger work best) to gently hook and pull it out.

If it’s bunched up, try to grip the edge and slowly pull.

What NOT to do:

Step 4: If you can’t get it out, call a doctor

If you’ve tried for 10-15 minutes and still can’t get it, don’t force it. Your vagina is sensitive, and excessive poking around can lead to irritation or infection.

A doctor can remove it quickly and painlessly in minutes. And no, they won’t judge you, they’ve seen way worse. But even if they did, what does it matter? As long as it’s out of you, you’re good.

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Step 5: Watch for any signs of infection

Once the condom is out, everything should go back to normal. But if the condom was stuck for hours or days, bacteria could build up, leading to infections like unusual vaginal discharge (yellow, green, or bad-smelling), pain or burning sensation down there, fever or discomfort.

If any of these happen, see a doctor for a quick check-up.

How to prevent this from happening again

Now that we’ve handled the crisis, let’s avoid a repeat performance:

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