Aadar Jain and his fiancée, Alekha Advani, recently held their mehendi ceremony, celebrating their love in the presence of close friends and family. During the event, Aadar made a heartfelt toast, showering Alekha with admiration and expressing his joy at marrying her. His touching words, where he described her as "a dream come true," resonated with many.
However, one particular remark did not sit well with some people. While recalling their journey, Aadar said, "I have loved her for so long and always wanted to be with her, but it took 20 years of time pass to finally reach this moment." The term "time pass" sparked discussions online, with many feeling it was an insensitive way to refer to past relationships.
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Past relationships
His previous relationship with Bollywood actress Tara Sutaria was quite public, and some critics believe his words might come across as dismissive towards his exes. Many argue that regardless of how a relationship concludes, it deserves to be acknowledged with respect rather than being brushed off as insignificant.
While Aadar’s speech was mostly filled with admiration for Alekha, this specific comment drew mixed reactions. Some found it lighthearted, while others felt it was unnecessary. The episode highlights the importance of choosing words carefully, as even casual remarks can carry unintended weight.
What does it say about a person disrespecting their previous relationships and making a moment of out it?
When two people break up, especially when two people in public eye break-up, they need to understand the intensity of it and keep working towards their lives, individually. Respecting each other's boundaries and using the right words in the public is of utmost importance. Aadar calling his past relationships 'Timepass' upset netizens because he disrespected his past relationships while starting a new chapter.
Every relationship you come across in life teaches you some very valuable lessons in life. No matter what you feel post the separation, you need to recall and remind yourself that you shared some truly good moments with your ex partner which indirectly have shaped you into who you are today. Making statements that showcase your disrespect towards your ex partner says more about you that your relationship with them.
When you truly move on, you accept, you let go, you respect the privacy of the ex partner, admire and love your now partner and you definitely do not bring any reference of your past while starting a new chapter.