Not quite at it like rabbits? From trying to be too adventurous to dogs on the bed, experts on the habits you didn’t realise were spoiling your sex life – and how to improve it

“Studies show that clutter kills libido. A messy and disorganised space can cause stress, which is not good for our sex life,” says sex educator Portia Brown. “You may find yourself thinking, ‘Why haven’t I put away that laundry?’ instead of focusing on pleasure.”